What is God showing you that you are to do with your life? However small or great that is, it must be yours and not someone else’s. What a stripping, for example, is sickness or aging, or the loss of loved ones, or ultimately the stripping that is the embrace of Sister Death.
The important thing is to give humbly and honestly of what God asks you to give. In the end you are the gift God wants; in the meantime each person struggles to know what God wants and whether or not one is really giving the gift of one’s self to God.
–from the book Enter Assisi: An Invitation to Franciscan Spirituality